More than 4,500 people have reacted so far and about 4,000 have commented on a man’s social media post over the weekend in which he announced that he will not forgive his “cheating wife” after she went on a “trip.” of girls” and I ended up with another man.
However, indicating his personal confusion, he titled his post: “Am I wrong for not giving my cheating wife another chance?”
Sharing his story on the Reddit page known as “Am I wrong?”, the man said he is 39 years old and his wife is 33.
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The couple has been together for 14 years, “HippoOK9111” said, they have been married for 10 years and have a 7-year-old daughter.
He said that recently she “went on a girls’ trip. I wasn’t worried at all. I’ve never had reason to distrust her.”
Sharing his personal story on social media, one husband (not pictured) said his wife had “never done anything that worried me, and it’s not even like she’s going abroad.” (iStock)
The man said she “never did anything that worried me, and it’s not even like she was going abroad.”
He added: “She was going to a Butlins half an hour away,” referring to a spa chain in the UK.
She noted that she “went with her sister and some other girls.”
“She had only been away one night of a three-night trip.”
However, that was not the end.
He wrote: “She called me this morning and I wasn’t expecting anything more than her checking in. She had only been away one night of a three-night trip.”
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However, when the man answered the phone, he said his wife “was crying and incoherent.”
He said: “When I finally calmed her down, she told me she had slept with someone else the night before.”
The man wrote that when he answered the phone, his wife (not pictured) “was crying and incoherent.” (iStock)
The Reddit poster shared all the details his wife apparently relayed to him.
The couple apparently “flirted a little and danced together, and she thought that was as far as they could go. But he allegedly simply wowed her with a kiss, which turned into kissing, and then she asked him to walk her back.” to his hotel, which resulted in them having sexual relations.”
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She continued in some detail, adding that the man in question “is supposedly 10 years younger than her, and she said he lied and told her he was going through a divorce. She says she doesn’t know what happened to him and she just wanted to ‘see if he still he had it’ but he got carried away.”
“Am I wrong for not even considering forgiving her?”
The husband said, “I want to leave her. She begs me not to, offers me marriage counseling, never goes out again, never drinks again, etc.”
He noted, “I’ve always been a one-shot type. I just told her to fuck off and I’ve been ignoring her… Now her friends and her sister are calling me too.”
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He continued, “I just want everyone to leave me alone.”
The husband said that when he told his mother about the drama “she said I should ‘think about my family’ and that my wife seems genuinely sorry and didn’t try to hide anything, and it was made clear immediately. That’s not what she had an adventure'”.
“No need to make a decision now if it just happened,” one person wrote about the couple’s drama. “You will feel different emotions each day and each week that passes.” (iStock)
The husband added: “I feel like I’m crazy. Am I wrong for not even considering forgiving her?”
In a lengthy update to his original post, the man told others in part: “As for my mother, she still thinks I should forgive her… She loves her. And she just wants everything to be okay.”
He also wrote, “My daughter has no idea what’s going on… I still have no idea what I’m going to do. Honestly, I’m still reeling.”
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Among the comments posted by other people on the site was this opinion, which represented the way many other people felt: “Say goodbye… It will happen again and again if you let it.”
Another person wrote with a completely different point of view, which was also supported by others: “Marriage counseling for sure. It is possible to get through this.”
“I’ve always been a one-shot guy,” the husband said of what happened between him and his wife. The relationship drama has had thousands of commenters sharing their opinions. (iStock)
And this commenter took a more middle-of-the-road view of the situation: “Take some time and think about everything seriously. There’s no need to make a decision right now if it just happened. You’ll feel different emotions every day and every week that passes.”
The same commenter added: “Let time filter out your disgust, anger, disappointment and any other emotions and see what is really left.”
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Licensed clinical psychologist Kathy Nickerson, who has presented marriage and relationship advice at more than 70 conferences, according to her website, believes that “most people who cheat (on their partner) are trying to deal with some pain they are experiencing.” experimenting.”
She also wrote on her blog that those who have been betrayed by their spouse or partner may “feel shocked, devastated, betrayed, horrified, shocked and deeply hurt.”
The California-based psychologist also noted that people “can get over this… This doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t love you. You’re not going crazy. You’re just very, very hurt.”
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